How to Make Your Ex Miss You & Want You Back
It's hard to let go of a relationship when you're still in love with your ex.
It's common to be constantly thinking of your ex during these times but how can you make your ex miss you and more important, how can you make your ex want you back? Even if your ex is not talking to you or perhaps even completely ignoring you, if there's a will there's a way! But first, let's look at some things you should avoid doing at all cost! Break up etiquettes: Don't constantly txt, call, email or message your ex after your break up.
Don't try to get the latest on your ex from mutual friends or relatives.
Don't devise 'accidental' run-ins in hopes of seeing and talking to your ex.
Don't date other people in the hopes of getting your ex jealous.
Don't try to be friends immediately after your break up thinking this will lead to something more.
Why are these important rules to follow? Because they are all tied to a particular mindset and that mindset absolutely screams: 'I want my ex back and I'll do anything to get them back!" This reeks of desperation and your ex can smell it from miles and miles away.
So what 'should' you do to make your ex miss you and want you back? Here is the break down of the strategy: Distance yourself emotionally and physically from your ex.
This means preparing and implementing no contact.
What I mean by preparing is that No Contact is not just something you do a bit here and there.
It's a commitment and it IS long-term (at least you should prepare for it to be).
Don't settle for friendship if that's not what you want.
Very often ex's will start calling up and wanting to remain friends.
This could be out of guilt, out of habit or simply to have you around as Plan B.
Do any of these sound that great to you? Settling for friendship means you'll settle for other things and that opens you up for further hurt and lack of respect.
Take this time to focus on your own developments and achievements.
You should never settle for what you are or have right now, there's always room for improvement and new things to discover.
If you've let your appearances go or you're self-conscious about your appearances, start to do things to make yourself feel good about yourself.
Exercise, eat healthy, give yourself a make over and clean house, do the things that make you feel good.
So how will this make your ex miss you and want you back? Your ex is not some robot that's programmed to hate you or ignore you forever.
Your ex will miss you if they hear very little from you.
That is human nature, we all love to reminisce about the past and your ex will do the same.
As soon as they start filling their thoughts of you, it won't be long until they start to contact you.
The trick is to be patient.
It's common to be constantly thinking of your ex during these times but how can you make your ex miss you and more important, how can you make your ex want you back? Even if your ex is not talking to you or perhaps even completely ignoring you, if there's a will there's a way! But first, let's look at some things you should avoid doing at all cost! Break up etiquettes: Don't constantly txt, call, email or message your ex after your break up.
Don't try to get the latest on your ex from mutual friends or relatives.
Don't devise 'accidental' run-ins in hopes of seeing and talking to your ex.
Don't date other people in the hopes of getting your ex jealous.
Don't try to be friends immediately after your break up thinking this will lead to something more.
Why are these important rules to follow? Because they are all tied to a particular mindset and that mindset absolutely screams: 'I want my ex back and I'll do anything to get them back!" This reeks of desperation and your ex can smell it from miles and miles away.
So what 'should' you do to make your ex miss you and want you back? Here is the break down of the strategy: Distance yourself emotionally and physically from your ex.
This means preparing and implementing no contact.
What I mean by preparing is that No Contact is not just something you do a bit here and there.
It's a commitment and it IS long-term (at least you should prepare for it to be).
Don't settle for friendship if that's not what you want.
Very often ex's will start calling up and wanting to remain friends.
This could be out of guilt, out of habit or simply to have you around as Plan B.
Do any of these sound that great to you? Settling for friendship means you'll settle for other things and that opens you up for further hurt and lack of respect.
Take this time to focus on your own developments and achievements.
You should never settle for what you are or have right now, there's always room for improvement and new things to discover.
If you've let your appearances go or you're self-conscious about your appearances, start to do things to make yourself feel good about yourself.
Exercise, eat healthy, give yourself a make over and clean house, do the things that make you feel good.
So how will this make your ex miss you and want you back? Your ex is not some robot that's programmed to hate you or ignore you forever.
Your ex will miss you if they hear very little from you.
That is human nature, we all love to reminisce about the past and your ex will do the same.
As soon as they start filling their thoughts of you, it won't be long until they start to contact you.
The trick is to be patient.
