How to Communicate Your Attraction to a Woman When Flirting With Her
Flirting is one of the most basic forms of communicating attraction that goes on between men and women. Just because it is so basic and so prevalent, that does not mean that every guy is well versed in what to do to properly communicate his attraction to a woman. When asked, plenty of men will sheepishly admit that they quite often feel like they don't really know what to do when they are flirting with a woman. Many times, they just kind of wing it and hope that they get it right. While that is one option that you can take, it probably is not the option that you want to take if you are really attracted to a woman. If you are hoping that things are going to click and that you might be able to get a date with the woman that you are flirting with, then you are probably going to want to make sure that you are communicating your attraction to her properly.
Don't get too hung up on the word, proper, though. There are plenty of effective ways to flirt with a woman and lots of men have their own style and do well even if they are not doing the same things that other men are doing. In fact, having your own style of flirting is a good thing, because then you don't look so generic when you meet a woman. You have your own vibe and seem like a guy who can do his own thing. However, if you do want to get some tips on how to flirt with a woman so that you communicate your attraction to her, here you go:
1. Don't discount the power of simply smiling.
It's one of the easiest things that you can do and it's meaning is pretty much universal. We all feel much more comfortable when we are around someone who is smiling, and when you are smiling at her and she is doing the same - it creates an instant sense of familiarity with a woman, even if you are meeting her for the first time. Don't plaster on one of those easy to spot fake smiles, though. That will take away the effect that a natural smile has on a woman.
2. The closer that you can get to her without crowding her, the better.
Being close to someone automatically suggests certain things to the subconscious mind. It also helps to take away that sense of not knowing one another. The thing is, if you are too close to a woman and it makes her feel like you are crowding her, then that can be a bad thing. Invading someone's space is never good, especially if it is a woman that you have just met and are hoping will think highly of you.
3. Don't be afraid to ask her questions that make her want to talk to you.
It's good to get conversation going with a woman you want to date and if you can make the conversation fun, then you probably will be able to escalate to the point where you can ask her out and she will feel like saying yes to you. Don't go prying when you are asking her questions, as that can seem a bit awkward and weird, especially if you have just met the woman that you are talking to.
Don't get too hung up on the word, proper, though. There are plenty of effective ways to flirt with a woman and lots of men have their own style and do well even if they are not doing the same things that other men are doing. In fact, having your own style of flirting is a good thing, because then you don't look so generic when you meet a woman. You have your own vibe and seem like a guy who can do his own thing. However, if you do want to get some tips on how to flirt with a woman so that you communicate your attraction to her, here you go:
1. Don't discount the power of simply smiling.
It's one of the easiest things that you can do and it's meaning is pretty much universal. We all feel much more comfortable when we are around someone who is smiling, and when you are smiling at her and she is doing the same - it creates an instant sense of familiarity with a woman, even if you are meeting her for the first time. Don't plaster on one of those easy to spot fake smiles, though. That will take away the effect that a natural smile has on a woman.
2. The closer that you can get to her without crowding her, the better.
Being close to someone automatically suggests certain things to the subconscious mind. It also helps to take away that sense of not knowing one another. The thing is, if you are too close to a woman and it makes her feel like you are crowding her, then that can be a bad thing. Invading someone's space is never good, especially if it is a woman that you have just met and are hoping will think highly of you.
3. Don't be afraid to ask her questions that make her want to talk to you.
It's good to get conversation going with a woman you want to date and if you can make the conversation fun, then you probably will be able to escalate to the point where you can ask her out and she will feel like saying yes to you. Don't go prying when you are asking her questions, as that can seem a bit awkward and weird, especially if you have just met the woman that you are talking to.
