Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back - The Reason Why Your Efforts Are Not Working
Are you trying to get your ex girlfriend back? Are you doing everything humanly possible to bring back your lost love? I will give it to you straight, because a lot of other people won't.
Do you know why your efforts are not working? Your methods and tactics are not working because you only have your own selfish intentions in mind.
Not what you wanted to hear? Good, because you need to hear it.
The reason nothing is going right is because you are doing what you feel is best.
Unfortunately, you are doing what you feel is best for you.
I'll give you an example.
You miss your ex like crazy and wished that things were back to normal.
So what is your natural instinct? Your natural instinct is to call or show up unannounced because you feel like hearing her voice or seeing her in person will make things better.
You feel like contact with her will make you feel better.
Guess what? It doesn't make her feel better.
It makes her feel weird and makes her realize why she broke up with you in the first place.
Your voice and presence is a constant reminder of why you broke up.
So what do I suggest you do? I suggest that you start thinking more of her and less of you.
Think about how it would make her feel.
Think about how she would react and think about her feelings before your own.
If you really love her and care about her then putting yourself aside and her feelings before yours will bring her back.
Once she starts to see what is going on and starts to see that your motivations are really intended for her best interests, then she will truly start to heal and start to consider moving forward with your reconciliation.
It's hard to hear things like this, but it's what a lot of people won't tell you.
A lot of people will give you all kinds of different advice, but if you adhere to one rule in this whole process then you can't fail in getting her back.
And that rule is this: Put her feelings ahead of your own.
That's it.
That one reason, that one sentence, that one rule is what will get her back.
Not a bunch of tricks, not a bunch of tactics to try and certainly not a lot of manipulative things you might say to win her back.
And honestly if you are using manipulation to get her back, then you might want to truly reconsider if you really love her at all.
Tough words, I know.
But, it is something that you need to hear.
Getting your ex girlfriend may feel impossible, but it becomes very possible when you stick to that one rule - put her feelings ahead of your own.
Do you know why your efforts are not working? Your methods and tactics are not working because you only have your own selfish intentions in mind.
Not what you wanted to hear? Good, because you need to hear it.
The reason nothing is going right is because you are doing what you feel is best.
Unfortunately, you are doing what you feel is best for you.
I'll give you an example.
You miss your ex like crazy and wished that things were back to normal.
So what is your natural instinct? Your natural instinct is to call or show up unannounced because you feel like hearing her voice or seeing her in person will make things better.
You feel like contact with her will make you feel better.
Guess what? It doesn't make her feel better.
It makes her feel weird and makes her realize why she broke up with you in the first place.
Your voice and presence is a constant reminder of why you broke up.
So what do I suggest you do? I suggest that you start thinking more of her and less of you.
Think about how it would make her feel.
Think about how she would react and think about her feelings before your own.
If you really love her and care about her then putting yourself aside and her feelings before yours will bring her back.
Once she starts to see what is going on and starts to see that your motivations are really intended for her best interests, then she will truly start to heal and start to consider moving forward with your reconciliation.
It's hard to hear things like this, but it's what a lot of people won't tell you.
A lot of people will give you all kinds of different advice, but if you adhere to one rule in this whole process then you can't fail in getting her back.
And that rule is this: Put her feelings ahead of your own.
That's it.
That one reason, that one sentence, that one rule is what will get her back.
Not a bunch of tricks, not a bunch of tactics to try and certainly not a lot of manipulative things you might say to win her back.
And honestly if you are using manipulation to get her back, then you might want to truly reconsider if you really love her at all.
Tough words, I know.
But, it is something that you need to hear.
Getting your ex girlfriend may feel impossible, but it becomes very possible when you stick to that one rule - put her feelings ahead of your own.
