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Tips When Planning Your Couple Engagement

Keeping your engagement planning a secret can surely be a bit a difficult, especially if your partner is known to be inquisitive, intuitive, or suspicious enough.
To help you keep the planning a secret affair, you may refer to the following tips as your guide.
First off, consider your usual favorites as a couple-- from restaurants and events you frequent, to your ordinary attire when you go out.
The idea here is to plan a proposal that will not make your partner suspicious.
If you're planning to propose in a cozy restaurant or during a couple trip, for instance, this may be a good idea if you do these things every now and then.
However, if you invite your partner to a romantic vacation out of the blue, expect her to be somewhat skeptical of your intentions.
Consider the usual things you do and the places your frequent, and you can start your planning from here.
If you think your partner is gearing towards high expectations and anxious suspicions, it's a good idea to lead her towards a false date, all the more making your specific proposal schedule more unexpected.
However, make sure not to prolong the excitement and expectation -- it's not advisable to set up your partner to multiple disappointments just so you can give yourself more time to prepare for the big day.
If you're planning to use a routine activity as backdrop or premise for the engagement you're planning, consider doing something special to make the moment more unforgettable.
Make it look as if you'll just have an ordinary activity (seeing a movie, for instance), when in fact you've already planned this date to be your big day for a special proposal.
Admit it or not, most women are highly suspicious and love to poke around.
To ensure that you'll be keeping the proposal a secret, make sure to cover your tracks accordingly.
Even the tell-tale signs of purchasing receipts for flowers, engagement and eternity ring, a short call to her parents on your phone, or a detail on your credit card statement can possibly ruin the surprise.
Make sure not to leave a trail if you want to keep the event a top secret for now.
Last but definitely not the least on our list, stick to your old behavior if you want to keep the suspicions at bay.
Along on your planning, make sure to prepare the necessary details.
Ensure that you have the basics well-covered -- choose an activity and venue, prepare the perfect timing to bring out the ring and ask your question, and get ready for a special and heartwarming speech to go along with the proposal.


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