Generally when a break up occurs, at least one person is not happy with the idea, thus having skills for winning back your ex can seem as essential as breathing.
The pain after a break up can be blinding, so it may be hard to see a way back, but most of the time there is one, you just need to know how to find it.
You may find yourself pondering what it was that brought the other person to the melting point, which fight or unkind word or action.
It may not actually be beneficial to dwell on these things as it can be as simple as not doing something, or not effectively showing your love and devotion.
You'll need to make sure your ex knows that you are willing to give them what they ask for, which after a break up will be space and time.
It's important to be confident in your request to reunite.
Keep in mind that your ex will have time to reflect on the good times that you had and may begin to feel lonely and miss the relationship without help on your part.
If you appear happy and confident, it will make you more attractive and trigger this rekindled longing in your ex even more than your absence may.
Directly after the break up, the idea of winning back your ex may seem far fetched and it might seem it won't happen, despite all your longing.
Just keep in mind that if you have faith and concentrate on not invading their space, they may just come right back to you!