Family & Relationships Conflict

Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back By Being Independent

Sure, you want to be able to get back with your ex girlfriend and all you can seem to do is to think about how much you want to be around her again.
While it may seem like it is impossible right now, it can happen and one of the tricks to make it possible is to become independent now that the two of you have broken up with one another.
One of the worst things that you can do as a man who has broken up with a woman is to become that guy who acts needy and clingy, like he can't do a thing on his own without the woman he loves at his side.
You may think that acting that way would be cute and romantic, but ask any woman and they will tell you that it's not.
You can actually make your ex girlfriend feel totally turned off by you if you act that way.
You definitely don't want that to happen, because there is pretty much no way that you can win back your ex girlfriend and have a relationship with her again if she is totally turned off by you.
When you show your ex girlfriend that you can be okay with the break up and that you can do your own thing and you are not going to turn into one of those sad, needy, and clingy ex boyfriends - you are going to show her a quality that she is going to find appealing.
That does not necessarily mean that she will take you back, but it does mean that she will have good thoughts when she does think about you and you need to her to feel that way if you are going to have a shot at winning her back.
Another thing that happens when you become more independent of your ex girlfriend and you go off and do your own thing, is that you are going to end up with more opportunities to meet other women.
That can make you seem a little more attractive to your ex, because she will see that other women are into you.
Not only that, it will definitely keep you away from having any desperate and needy behavior, because you will have plenty of options besides your ex girlfriend.
You really can't go wrong by being independent after the break up and resisting the urge to act clingy and needy.
And you will be actually helping out your chances of being able to win back your ex girlfriend, because you won't be exhibiting those kinds of behaviors that would turn her off to you.


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