How to Be Dominant in Bed - Be a Dominant Man and Give Her Shaking Orgasm
Women love their men to be dominant in bed: they want to be lead and not the other way round.
A wuss in bed turns a woman off.
You may have an idea that being dominant in bed is to be rough and violent to your lady.
This is not correct.
Being dominant in bed is more than just throwing a few slaps, ripping her clothes off or trying some light bondage on her...
in fact many women don't like that.
Instead, you need to know what she likes and how she wants you to take the lead in the bedroom.
The best way to find out is to communicate this with her.
Once you know what she wants, push the boundaries but never go beyond unless she is comfortable with it.
Now, let me share with you some ways to start being dominant in bed and give her a mind-blowing orgasm: 1.
Be forceful yet gentle.
You need to know what you are doing.
Do not go around throwing a few slaps on her buttock.
The idea to show that you are dominant is to let her know you are in full control.
This may lead to smacking her up but this comes much later once trust is earned.
Remember, take 100% control and tell her what you want to do next.
Do not let her lead.
2.
Know the reason why you want to be dominant in bed.
If being dominant in bed is just for your selfish reason (fantasies and eye-pleasure) and not about her, I would suggest you give up the idea.
This is because the reason for you dominating her in bed is to pleasure her! When you are dominant, you dominate her emotion.
When she cannot control her emotion anymore during lovemaking, she will have the greatest sex of all time and of course - mind-blowing orgasm.
Control her with lust, not fear.
3.
Take 100% control.
This is an add-on to the first point.
Imagine when you want something so badly, you do it the way you desire and take control.
In the bedroom, lead her around by doing things such as: pressing her body against the wall, pushing her down on bed, moving her thighs to the side to show how much you want to have sex with her, etc.
Women want their men to lead more than just follow.
So take this opportunity to show your leadership and show her what you want her to do.
4.
Learn about body language and pay attention to what she wants.
Pay attention to her body language to find out whether she likes what you doing.
Understand female sexuality and respond to what she wants in bed.
However, you can NEVER be dominant in bed if you can't last long enough to satisfy your lady.
To be able to satisfy her during intercourse, you must last at least 5 to 10 minutes.
Are you lasting long enough? If not, check out the bonus tip below to find out more:
A wuss in bed turns a woman off.
You may have an idea that being dominant in bed is to be rough and violent to your lady.
This is not correct.
Being dominant in bed is more than just throwing a few slaps, ripping her clothes off or trying some light bondage on her...
in fact many women don't like that.
Instead, you need to know what she likes and how she wants you to take the lead in the bedroom.
The best way to find out is to communicate this with her.
Once you know what she wants, push the boundaries but never go beyond unless she is comfortable with it.
Now, let me share with you some ways to start being dominant in bed and give her a mind-blowing orgasm: 1.
Be forceful yet gentle.
You need to know what you are doing.
Do not go around throwing a few slaps on her buttock.
The idea to show that you are dominant is to let her know you are in full control.
This may lead to smacking her up but this comes much later once trust is earned.
Remember, take 100% control and tell her what you want to do next.
Do not let her lead.
2.
Know the reason why you want to be dominant in bed.
If being dominant in bed is just for your selfish reason (fantasies and eye-pleasure) and not about her, I would suggest you give up the idea.
This is because the reason for you dominating her in bed is to pleasure her! When you are dominant, you dominate her emotion.
When she cannot control her emotion anymore during lovemaking, she will have the greatest sex of all time and of course - mind-blowing orgasm.
Control her with lust, not fear.
3.
Take 100% control.
This is an add-on to the first point.
Imagine when you want something so badly, you do it the way you desire and take control.
In the bedroom, lead her around by doing things such as: pressing her body against the wall, pushing her down on bed, moving her thighs to the side to show how much you want to have sex with her, etc.
Women want their men to lead more than just follow.
So take this opportunity to show your leadership and show her what you want her to do.
4.
Learn about body language and pay attention to what she wants.
Pay attention to her body language to find out whether she likes what you doing.
Understand female sexuality and respond to what she wants in bed.
However, you can NEVER be dominant in bed if you can't last long enough to satisfy your lady.
To be able to satisfy her during intercourse, you must last at least 5 to 10 minutes.
Are you lasting long enough? If not, check out the bonus tip below to find out more: