I Want to Stop Arguing With My Partner
All relationships go through good and bad phases; in the normal course of events this is the sign of a healthy functioning relationship.
Sometimes though, when a relationship goes through a period of conflict, it is possible for the couple to get into the habit of arguing.
This happens when a couple have been arguing for so long it has become the norm.
I will be looking at ways of guarding against this and of dealing with it should it happen.
Arguing is a natural part of all relationships and should be seen as such.
It can show that a couple are taking an interest in each other and that they are passionate about their respective points of view.
These are the types of arguments that are acceptable in healthy relationships and are a sign that both halves of the partnership are flourishing.
Constant arguing about small things, bickering, is not a positive thing and can be the sign of a deeper malaise.
If you find that you are having these type of low level nitpicking arguments all the time it is probably time for a visit to a relationship counsellor.
There is a part of all of us that is drawn to destructive behaviour, a part that should not be pandered to.
The type of arguing described above can become the norm in relationships that have gone bad.
In extreme cases it can become the only form of contact left within a relationship and this is bad news for all concerned.
If a couple find that they are arguing in this way then I would suggest that they take a complete break from each other, it is often the only way to break such a destructive cycle of behaviour.
For a relationship to work for both parties everything has to be in balance; it is important to ensure that the positives outweigh the negatives.
If you find that the amount of arguing, and therefore stress, you have in your relationship outweighs the positives, then it is time for a serious conversation with your partner.
Sometimes though, when a relationship goes through a period of conflict, it is possible for the couple to get into the habit of arguing.
This happens when a couple have been arguing for so long it has become the norm.
I will be looking at ways of guarding against this and of dealing with it should it happen.
Arguing is a natural part of all relationships and should be seen as such.
It can show that a couple are taking an interest in each other and that they are passionate about their respective points of view.
These are the types of arguments that are acceptable in healthy relationships and are a sign that both halves of the partnership are flourishing.
Constant arguing about small things, bickering, is not a positive thing and can be the sign of a deeper malaise.
If you find that you are having these type of low level nitpicking arguments all the time it is probably time for a visit to a relationship counsellor.
There is a part of all of us that is drawn to destructive behaviour, a part that should not be pandered to.
The type of arguing described above can become the norm in relationships that have gone bad.
In extreme cases it can become the only form of contact left within a relationship and this is bad news for all concerned.
If a couple find that they are arguing in this way then I would suggest that they take a complete break from each other, it is often the only way to break such a destructive cycle of behaviour.
For a relationship to work for both parties everything has to be in balance; it is important to ensure that the positives outweigh the negatives.
If you find that the amount of arguing, and therefore stress, you have in your relationship outweighs the positives, then it is time for a serious conversation with your partner.
