5 Ways to Master This Relationship Destroyer - Lack of Self Confidence
When a woman suffers from a lack of self-confidence it affects her love relationship in a myriad of ways and she exhibits behaviors that are toxic and detrimental to a long lasting, healthy and committed relationship.
she:
If you want to become confident, it starts within you.
Your confidence has nothing to do with how beautiful you are, your level of intelligence, skills, talent or the amount of money you have.
It has to do with you believing in you, accepting that you are unique and knowing that "no one can do you, like you do you.
" Self development takes time, commitment and discipline.
You can begin to build your confidence and feel good about yourself no matter what, TODAY 1.
Fall in love with your body.
Make a conscious decision to love your body, it does not matter if you think you are not perfect, commit to loving you with the body you have today.
Make the mirror your friend and each time you go by, look at yourself with love and adoration.
Having confidence in yourself is not about the external trappings - it's about who you are at the core, your essence and no one can give it or take it away from you.
2.
Comparison is the Thief of Joy Stop comparing yourself to others - there will always be someone smarter than you, more beautiful,thinner, fitter, richer, but like your finger print...
there is only one you, you are unique, imperfectly perfect and your are good enough, Today.
3.
Change your thoughts and transform your life With our thoughts we create our reality.
When you are constantly worrying about your partner cheating, you treat him/her as if he/she has already cheated.
Finally, your partner cheats and you say in astonishment " I knew you were going to cheat, why did you do this to me.
" Even though your partner should take responsibility for his/her actions, you played a role in bringing this about, by first putting into the universe and fueling it with your incessant thoughts.
Our thoughts become our reality.
Acknowledge your negative thoughts, cancel them and replace with empowering ones.
4.
Don't say YES when you want to say NO and vice versa.
Sounds easy enough, right? but when you lack confidence,it is difficult to stand up for what you believe.
You might find yourself saying yes or no when you do not want too because you are afraid of rejection, confrontation.
It's time to stop the insanity - Start practicing being true to yourself.
Say NO or YES only because you truly want too.
5.
The blame game is lame - Take responsibility We learn at an early age that we should take responsibility for our actions and subsequent results.
When you play the blame game you hold your partner responsible for:
When you feel good about yourself, your time and energy will be spent building a strong, healthy and committed relationship, instead of destroying it.
she:
- second guesses her self.
- feels her physical appearance never measures up.
- questions the validity of her partner's love.
- becomes overly suspicious and questions her partner's where about
- has jealousy issues
- hates other women for no reason.
If you want to become confident, it starts within you.
Your confidence has nothing to do with how beautiful you are, your level of intelligence, skills, talent or the amount of money you have.
It has to do with you believing in you, accepting that you are unique and knowing that "no one can do you, like you do you.
" Self development takes time, commitment and discipline.
You can begin to build your confidence and feel good about yourself no matter what, TODAY 1.
Fall in love with your body.
Make a conscious decision to love your body, it does not matter if you think you are not perfect, commit to loving you with the body you have today.
Make the mirror your friend and each time you go by, look at yourself with love and adoration.
Having confidence in yourself is not about the external trappings - it's about who you are at the core, your essence and no one can give it or take it away from you.
2.
Comparison is the Thief of Joy Stop comparing yourself to others - there will always be someone smarter than you, more beautiful,thinner, fitter, richer, but like your finger print...
there is only one you, you are unique, imperfectly perfect and your are good enough, Today.
3.
Change your thoughts and transform your life With our thoughts we create our reality.
When you are constantly worrying about your partner cheating, you treat him/her as if he/she has already cheated.
Finally, your partner cheats and you say in astonishment " I knew you were going to cheat, why did you do this to me.
" Even though your partner should take responsibility for his/her actions, you played a role in bringing this about, by first putting into the universe and fueling it with your incessant thoughts.
Our thoughts become our reality.
Acknowledge your negative thoughts, cancel them and replace with empowering ones.
4.
Don't say YES when you want to say NO and vice versa.
Sounds easy enough, right? but when you lack confidence,it is difficult to stand up for what you believe.
You might find yourself saying yes or no when you do not want too because you are afraid of rejection, confrontation.
It's time to stop the insanity - Start practicing being true to yourself.
Say NO or YES only because you truly want too.
5.
The blame game is lame - Take responsibility We learn at an early age that we should take responsibility for our actions and subsequent results.
When you play the blame game you hold your partner responsible for:
- Lack of trust issues.
- Your unhappiness.
- Your bad days.
- Your mistrust.
- Why the relationship isn't working.
- What can I do to have better days.
- How do I contribute to the problems in my relationship
- What's inside of me that does not allow me to trust my partner.
- What can I do to feel good about myself.
When you feel good about yourself, your time and energy will be spent building a strong, healthy and committed relationship, instead of destroying it.
