Attracting More Satisfying Relationships With the Law of Attraction
As long as the Law of Attraction has only the 'DON'T want' script, it is restricted to orchestrating that script over and over.
We must give the Law of Attraction some NEW MATERIAL to work with.
What do you really want in your relationships? Security? Affection? Loyalty? Companionship? Communication? What? Do you wonder why you keep attracting certain types of people into your life? Are you tired of feeling disappointed in 'love? Have you ever been 'blind-sided' by someone you thought was a friend? Do you feel desperate to find that special person you can live with forever? Here are three steps that can help you in attracting more satisfying relationships: Step 1: Make a thorough list of all the characteristics or scenarios of your past relationships that you DON'T WANT to experience again.
You can use the T-toolTM for this exercise or just take a fresh sheet of paper and draw a large 'T' on it.
Label the left hand column: 'I Don't want' and the right-hand column, 'I Do Want'.
Ask your Inner Self to remind you of past events that you do NOT want repeated.
Write a few words about each event that express the essence of that event.
Step 2: Examine each item on the 'I DON'T want...
" side and ask yourself this question: "If I don't want this, what DO I want?" One major reason why we keep attracting the same unsatisfactory relationships is because we fail to use the contrast contained in those negative events to get clear about what we DO want.
Step 3: Write a Script about how you DO want your relationships to be: As long as the Law of Attraction has only the 'DON'T want' Script, it is restricted to orchestrating that Script over and over.
We must give the Law of Attraction some NEW MATERIAL to work with.
Scripting accesses all four parts of the brain.
The left brain which deals with words and logic; The right brain which understands patterns and symbols; The mid-brain which experiences emotions; and The brain stem which registers physical stimulation.
Many people find it a bit hard to really create success with their a scripts and that is as a result of stuck emotional energetic patterns that are difficult to change.
There are many incredible techniques that can shift those affirmations quite deeply that they make the attraction process even easier and more effective without the mindless repetition.
How deeply are you willing to go to see the changes that you know are possible to have?
We must give the Law of Attraction some NEW MATERIAL to work with.
What do you really want in your relationships? Security? Affection? Loyalty? Companionship? Communication? What? Do you wonder why you keep attracting certain types of people into your life? Are you tired of feeling disappointed in 'love? Have you ever been 'blind-sided' by someone you thought was a friend? Do you feel desperate to find that special person you can live with forever? Here are three steps that can help you in attracting more satisfying relationships: Step 1: Make a thorough list of all the characteristics or scenarios of your past relationships that you DON'T WANT to experience again.
You can use the T-toolTM for this exercise or just take a fresh sheet of paper and draw a large 'T' on it.
Label the left hand column: 'I Don't want' and the right-hand column, 'I Do Want'.
Ask your Inner Self to remind you of past events that you do NOT want repeated.
Write a few words about each event that express the essence of that event.
Step 2: Examine each item on the 'I DON'T want...
" side and ask yourself this question: "If I don't want this, what DO I want?" One major reason why we keep attracting the same unsatisfactory relationships is because we fail to use the contrast contained in those negative events to get clear about what we DO want.
Step 3: Write a Script about how you DO want your relationships to be: As long as the Law of Attraction has only the 'DON'T want' Script, it is restricted to orchestrating that Script over and over.
We must give the Law of Attraction some NEW MATERIAL to work with.
Scripting accesses all four parts of the brain.
The left brain which deals with words and logic; The right brain which understands patterns and symbols; The mid-brain which experiences emotions; and The brain stem which registers physical stimulation.
Many people find it a bit hard to really create success with their a scripts and that is as a result of stuck emotional energetic patterns that are difficult to change.
There are many incredible techniques that can shift those affirmations quite deeply that they make the attraction process even easier and more effective without the mindless repetition.
How deeply are you willing to go to see the changes that you know are possible to have?
