My Girlfriend Dumped Me! - Steps You Must Take If You Want Her Back
"My girlfriend dumped me! What do I do now?" Millions of guys have been in your shoes (I know, that doesn't help much does it?). But the fact of the matter is generally it is the girl who breaks up with the guy, and not the other way around (about 75% statistics show).
The fact that you are reading this article tells me you want to know what to do in order to get her to come back to you. Following these steps below will set you on your way. But first, a tough question for you…
Are You Better Off Without Her? - Guys have a habit of staying in relationships longer than they should. Although the traditional mindset is that guys like the single, free-wheeling lifestyle, it is more often the case that they prefer committed relationships. It is often easier for guys to stay in an "ok" relationship rather than seek out a new and better one. Just take a moment and ask yourself, "Did she just do me a favor?"
OK, you are still reading, so my assumption is you indeed feel like getting back with her is in your best interests. Here is what you do next:
Does She Still Love You? - The first thing you need to determine is whether or not you think she still loves you. Girls are emotional creatures and often times can act in spur of the moment impulsive ways. If she does still have feelings for you, than she may already be regretting the breakup right now.
Do Not Pester Her! - This can be a challenge, but this is essential. More often than not, a guy who just got dumped by his girlfriend will begin sending a blizzard of text messages and never ending phone calls and voice mails. If this is you STOP NOW! This activity will only act to drive her further away.
As hard as it may be, you need to accept your breakup and try to move on while you wait for her to sort things out. In fact, you may want to think about seeing some other girls, and don't be afraid to date ones that are in her inner circle.
Allow Her to Come Back to You - Many guys will go out of their way to impress and indeed win over a girl and then slip into a comfortable mode when they have her in a relationship. Are you really the guy she first met, or was it a false front?
If you are indeed who she first fell for, then be yourself and allow her to take notice. You may want to do some subtle things for her to identify. If you are going to a party and you know that she will be there, too, where a shirt that she bought you or some other item that has special meaning between the two of you. It is a great way to let her know that she is still important to you, as is the time you spent together.
Don't be afraid to invite her to non-dating type of events. If you and some friends are going to the beach or the park, invite her to come along. But be sure not to be smothering to her. Spend time with your other friends and give her a chance to see that you are indeed the guy she fell for in the first place!
The fact that you are reading this article tells me you want to know what to do in order to get her to come back to you. Following these steps below will set you on your way. But first, a tough question for you…
Are You Better Off Without Her? - Guys have a habit of staying in relationships longer than they should. Although the traditional mindset is that guys like the single, free-wheeling lifestyle, it is more often the case that they prefer committed relationships. It is often easier for guys to stay in an "ok" relationship rather than seek out a new and better one. Just take a moment and ask yourself, "Did she just do me a favor?"
OK, you are still reading, so my assumption is you indeed feel like getting back with her is in your best interests. Here is what you do next:
Does She Still Love You? - The first thing you need to determine is whether or not you think she still loves you. Girls are emotional creatures and often times can act in spur of the moment impulsive ways. If she does still have feelings for you, than she may already be regretting the breakup right now.
Do Not Pester Her! - This can be a challenge, but this is essential. More often than not, a guy who just got dumped by his girlfriend will begin sending a blizzard of text messages and never ending phone calls and voice mails. If this is you STOP NOW! This activity will only act to drive her further away.
As hard as it may be, you need to accept your breakup and try to move on while you wait for her to sort things out. In fact, you may want to think about seeing some other girls, and don't be afraid to date ones that are in her inner circle.
Allow Her to Come Back to You - Many guys will go out of their way to impress and indeed win over a girl and then slip into a comfortable mode when they have her in a relationship. Are you really the guy she first met, or was it a false front?
If you are indeed who she first fell for, then be yourself and allow her to take notice. You may want to do some subtle things for her to identify. If you are going to a party and you know that she will be there, too, where a shirt that she bought you or some other item that has special meaning between the two of you. It is a great way to let her know that she is still important to you, as is the time you spent together.
Don't be afraid to invite her to non-dating type of events. If you and some friends are going to the beach or the park, invite her to come along. But be sure not to be smothering to her. Spend time with your other friends and give her a chance to see that you are indeed the guy she fell for in the first place!
