The Three Step How to Guide to Make a Guy Fall in Love
Are you tired of being the girl who can never seem to make a guy fall in love? Do you just wish he'd stop being stupid and stubborn and get on with it? Do you seethe with secret envy for those girls who seem to have men falling for them all over the place? In the words of the old song, there are three steps to heaven, and there are three steps that you need to learn to make a guy fall in love when you want him to fall in love Step 1 - Men Like Sex.
Deal With It.
This step is really an attitude readjustment.
Men have a certain biological mission to fulfill, and some women feel that helping them to achieve this is the right way to make a guy fall in love.
Either that, or they waste their time railing against man's brute and barbarous nature.
The truth is that men do like sex, but sex isn't love, and it never will be.
It can be confused for love if you're emotionally inexperienced, but when a man falls in love, it's rarely with somebody he's been having a red-hot passionate dalliance with.
Resolve the confusion.
Keep sex out of the equation until the next two steps have been achieved.
Step 2 - Men Take The Scenic Route.
Deal With That Too.
When it comes to love, girls want to take the freeway, men want to go by the country backroads.
Not only is this an ironic reversal of real life driving preferences, it can be frustrating for girls who want to get their man into a blissful state of love as quickly as possible.
Sorry, girls, but on this occasion you'll just have to go at the guy's pace.
He wants to take it slow, so you need to let the relationship develop at the speed he feels comfortable with.
Ease the pressure off.
Let him know that it's safe to take his time.
Of course, you know that you'll get to where you want to go sooner or later.
Step 3 - Enjoy It! Enough of this dealing with it stuff.
Relationships are there to be enjoyed, and it's vital that you do so.
This will actually do more to ensure that the guy falls in love with you than anything else you could possibly do.
When you relax and enjoy yourself and feel at ease in your guy's company, you're creating a special emotional bond and a store of good feelings and memories that will indelibly fix you in each other's hearts.
Falling in love is an emotional process.
You can make a guy fall in love by being his friend, supporting him, listening to him, validating him as a person and creating the emotional bond that will keep you together for years to come.
Deal With It.
This step is really an attitude readjustment.
Men have a certain biological mission to fulfill, and some women feel that helping them to achieve this is the right way to make a guy fall in love.
Either that, or they waste their time railing against man's brute and barbarous nature.
The truth is that men do like sex, but sex isn't love, and it never will be.
It can be confused for love if you're emotionally inexperienced, but when a man falls in love, it's rarely with somebody he's been having a red-hot passionate dalliance with.
Resolve the confusion.
Keep sex out of the equation until the next two steps have been achieved.
Step 2 - Men Take The Scenic Route.
Deal With That Too.
When it comes to love, girls want to take the freeway, men want to go by the country backroads.
Not only is this an ironic reversal of real life driving preferences, it can be frustrating for girls who want to get their man into a blissful state of love as quickly as possible.
Sorry, girls, but on this occasion you'll just have to go at the guy's pace.
He wants to take it slow, so you need to let the relationship develop at the speed he feels comfortable with.
Ease the pressure off.
Let him know that it's safe to take his time.
Of course, you know that you'll get to where you want to go sooner or later.
Step 3 - Enjoy It! Enough of this dealing with it stuff.
Relationships are there to be enjoyed, and it's vital that you do so.
This will actually do more to ensure that the guy falls in love with you than anything else you could possibly do.
When you relax and enjoy yourself and feel at ease in your guy's company, you're creating a special emotional bond and a store of good feelings and memories that will indelibly fix you in each other's hearts.
Falling in love is an emotional process.
You can make a guy fall in love by being his friend, supporting him, listening to him, validating him as a person and creating the emotional bond that will keep you together for years to come.
