Discover How You Can Win Your Ex Back Using The No Contact Rule
use this time of temporary separation to have a re-look at your looks and general attitudes. Are you sure you are at your best both mentally and physically? This time is also good to heal your own mental wounds as it is doing for your ex.
With the passage of time and with no contact between each other, the old feelings come back. Both of you forgive each other for all the regrettable incidents of the past. You are now better prepared to call him or her for a chat to discuss the relationship, the problems faced and means to overcome them.
When you first do contact your ex - appear cool, normal and caring once again. Working on yourself and making sure that your life is going to a positive direction would be a big factor when it come to winning back your ex. You see, improving your life would also make you more confident about yourself. As your confidence grows, you'll notice that it is spreading to other parts of your life. Pretty soon, you'll find yourself being more confident than you were before. Your ex will definitely notice this. Since your ex already finds you attractive based on past experience, your appeal to them would only increase with the added confidence.
Q: What if I date someone else? Will my ex want me back if I make them jealous?
A: I suggest that you don't use this particular technique. You are toying with someone else's emotion not to mention giving your ex the impression that you have moved on from them. By doing this, your ex would think that they should find someone else too.
Q: What about the "reverse psychology" I've been hearing so much about? If I use a reverse psychology technique will my ex want me back?
A: I can't really answer that question, but would you want it to be effective? Personally, I think it isn't really a good idea to get your ex to want you just because you're using some complicated mind trick on them that they can't control. It's better if you get your ex back through completely rational means - by improving and working on yourself! So sit back and focus more on yourself and how to improve your life and soon enough, your ex would realize that they made a mistake and want to get back with you again.
Winning back your ex can feel like the most difficult thing in the world and in some ways it is. Although what is required can be straight forward and relatively simple the biggest obstacle you face right now is being able to contain your emotions and keeping a level head.
Lets look at some ways you can win back your ex even if it feels impossible to do so.
1. Turn The Tables On Your Ex
Turn the tables on your ex by making them feel as if they made a huge mistake leaving you, this does not include using guilt, manipulation or dirty tactics. You must agree with the break up, thank your ex for the time you shared together and walk away.
This might feel like the last thing you want to do do right now but it is an absolute must for winning back your ex.
With the passage of time and with no contact between each other, the old feelings come back. Both of you forgive each other for all the regrettable incidents of the past. You are now better prepared to call him or her for a chat to discuss the relationship, the problems faced and means to overcome them.
When you first do contact your ex - appear cool, normal and caring once again. Working on yourself and making sure that your life is going to a positive direction would be a big factor when it come to winning back your ex. You see, improving your life would also make you more confident about yourself. As your confidence grows, you'll notice that it is spreading to other parts of your life. Pretty soon, you'll find yourself being more confident than you were before. Your ex will definitely notice this. Since your ex already finds you attractive based on past experience, your appeal to them would only increase with the added confidence.
Q: What if I date someone else? Will my ex want me back if I make them jealous?
A: I suggest that you don't use this particular technique. You are toying with someone else's emotion not to mention giving your ex the impression that you have moved on from them. By doing this, your ex would think that they should find someone else too.
Q: What about the "reverse psychology" I've been hearing so much about? If I use a reverse psychology technique will my ex want me back?
A: I can't really answer that question, but would you want it to be effective? Personally, I think it isn't really a good idea to get your ex to want you just because you're using some complicated mind trick on them that they can't control. It's better if you get your ex back through completely rational means - by improving and working on yourself! So sit back and focus more on yourself and how to improve your life and soon enough, your ex would realize that they made a mistake and want to get back with you again.
Winning back your ex can feel like the most difficult thing in the world and in some ways it is. Although what is required can be straight forward and relatively simple the biggest obstacle you face right now is being able to contain your emotions and keeping a level head.
Lets look at some ways you can win back your ex even if it feels impossible to do so.
1. Turn The Tables On Your Ex
Turn the tables on your ex by making them feel as if they made a huge mistake leaving you, this does not include using guilt, manipulation or dirty tactics. You must agree with the break up, thank your ex for the time you shared together and walk away.
This might feel like the last thing you want to do do right now but it is an absolute must for winning back your ex.