HUMOR - The Secret Weapon For Keeping Your Girl Attracted
Do you consider yourself a funny person? ask your friends how they visualize you.
Are you a joker? constantlyplaying games with everybody and being "fun"? If so, then you're NOT funny, you're probably a goofball.
I want to talk to you about HUMOR, and the importance of it in relationships.
Most people think they're funny to some extent, even though most people know they're not the next Jim Carrey, they really believe they're somewhat entertaining.
I must tell you the difference between funny, and goofy.
Funny is being sassy, making the other person laugh, making everyone have a good time with your light presence and cheerful attitude, busting everyone's balls and truly spreading joy and laughter to others.
A goofy person is someone that TRIES TOO HARD to make everyone laugh, he's not really being unique or himself because he's seeking validation from everyone else by trying to make them laugh.
People will laugh AT the goofy person, not WITH him.
So which one are you?.
If you are a goofy person, it's OK, you're not gonna die, and we'll work on getting you out of that persona, but first I'd like to ask you for something.
Go stand in front of a mirror and look at yourself in the eyes..
..
now SLAP YOURSELF HARD! DON'T BE GOOFY! Good, now let's continue...
Women LOVE humor, they really enjoy a man who makes them laugh, who's funny to be around with, someone that'll make life easier by making her forget all the little troubles that come along with it.
If you ask any woman, what's the single most sought after quality in a guy, you'll see they all want HUMOR.
"I want a man who's FUNNY, who's caring, charming..
..
" "I'm looking for a man that'll love me for who I am, that'll MAKE ME LAUGH..
..
..
" I'm sure you've heard these comments right? So, now we know women love humor, but not EVERY kind of humor, they want light, busting her balls, cocky humor! YES, I said COCKY I learned a LOOOONG time ago, a priceless little piece of wisdom: COCKY + FUNNY = ADDICTION Women become ADDICTED to a man who's funny but with a drop or two of arrogance.
And not mean arrogance, just a little snippet of cockiness.
An example of how cocky funny works, would be something like this: You girls says to you: "Do you love me?" you answer "no, what do you mean? I hate you, get out my car!" and you give her a kiss right on the lips and smile.
That's golden, and women REALLY enjoy this.
It might not seem like much to you, but with the right body language and voice tone it'll make you ten times more attractive to her than if you would have answered with a plain and boring "Of course I do baby, more than anything in the world!".
By the way the Cocky + Funny theoryI learned from my mentor David DeAngelo.
One last thing I must mention is that when it comes to being funny, it's not so much about the jokes, than it is about the CHARACTER.
Watch a stand up routine from Dave Chapelle or Chris Rock, and notice how most of the jokes aren't really JOKES, they've adapted a character and they're telling STORIES from that character point of view.
So think about it.
I have a character I've developed which has worked amazingly well in my relationship, and it is the slightly over confident guy who's charming but will whip out a cocky funny comment out of nowhere and will smooth things out by adding a touch of caring love at the end (could be physical contact -a kiss, a caress -, or a smile), something that'll let my girl know that I'm just busting her balls.
I want you to THINK about how can you develop a character that's funny and your girl would LOVE.
Do it, give it some thought, it'll work wonders! talk again soon.
Joseph.
P.
S.
If you want to read more of Joseph's Articles go to his profile for his Blog address.
Are you a joker? constantlyplaying games with everybody and being "fun"? If so, then you're NOT funny, you're probably a goofball.
I want to talk to you about HUMOR, and the importance of it in relationships.
Most people think they're funny to some extent, even though most people know they're not the next Jim Carrey, they really believe they're somewhat entertaining.
I must tell you the difference between funny, and goofy.
Funny is being sassy, making the other person laugh, making everyone have a good time with your light presence and cheerful attitude, busting everyone's balls and truly spreading joy and laughter to others.
A goofy person is someone that TRIES TOO HARD to make everyone laugh, he's not really being unique or himself because he's seeking validation from everyone else by trying to make them laugh.
People will laugh AT the goofy person, not WITH him.
So which one are you?.
If you are a goofy person, it's OK, you're not gonna die, and we'll work on getting you out of that persona, but first I'd like to ask you for something.
Go stand in front of a mirror and look at yourself in the eyes..
..
now SLAP YOURSELF HARD! DON'T BE GOOFY! Good, now let's continue...
Women LOVE humor, they really enjoy a man who makes them laugh, who's funny to be around with, someone that'll make life easier by making her forget all the little troubles that come along with it.
If you ask any woman, what's the single most sought after quality in a guy, you'll see they all want HUMOR.
"I want a man who's FUNNY, who's caring, charming..
..
" "I'm looking for a man that'll love me for who I am, that'll MAKE ME LAUGH..
..
..
" I'm sure you've heard these comments right? So, now we know women love humor, but not EVERY kind of humor, they want light, busting her balls, cocky humor! YES, I said COCKY I learned a LOOOONG time ago, a priceless little piece of wisdom: COCKY + FUNNY = ADDICTION Women become ADDICTED to a man who's funny but with a drop or two of arrogance.
And not mean arrogance, just a little snippet of cockiness.
An example of how cocky funny works, would be something like this: You girls says to you: "Do you love me?" you answer "no, what do you mean? I hate you, get out my car!" and you give her a kiss right on the lips and smile.
That's golden, and women REALLY enjoy this.
It might not seem like much to you, but with the right body language and voice tone it'll make you ten times more attractive to her than if you would have answered with a plain and boring "Of course I do baby, more than anything in the world!".
By the way the Cocky + Funny theoryI learned from my mentor David DeAngelo.
One last thing I must mention is that when it comes to being funny, it's not so much about the jokes, than it is about the CHARACTER.
Watch a stand up routine from Dave Chapelle or Chris Rock, and notice how most of the jokes aren't really JOKES, they've adapted a character and they're telling STORIES from that character point of view.
So think about it.
I have a character I've developed which has worked amazingly well in my relationship, and it is the slightly over confident guy who's charming but will whip out a cocky funny comment out of nowhere and will smooth things out by adding a touch of caring love at the end (could be physical contact -a kiss, a caress -, or a smile), something that'll let my girl know that I'm just busting her balls.
I want you to THINK about how can you develop a character that's funny and your girl would LOVE.
Do it, give it some thought, it'll work wonders! talk again soon.
Joseph.
P.
S.
If you want to read more of Joseph's Articles go to his profile for his Blog address.
