Family & Relationships Conflict

How to Get Your Ex Back - 3 Practical Tips to Help You

Everybody has been through the break up of a relationship at some time in their lives.
They can all sympathise with what you are going through at this very moment, the hurt, shock, anger, and the emotional turmoil that you are experiencing after your relationship has fallen apart.
It is how you react to the initial break up will determine whether you can get your ex back.
The break up of your relationship is going to leave you in a state of shock, for so long you have been part of a loving couple, but now you are on your own again, wondering how you are going to cope with the everyday things that life throws at you.
You have probably already tried to speak to your ex and try to reason with them, but to no avail.
But there is a right and a wrong way to go about getting your ex back, and we are going to focus on the right way to do things.
Put on a brave face Never let your ex see how the separation has a affected you.
If you can stay strong and not become the "victim" in the break up, it will not give your ex the satisfaction of having you pleading for them to return to you.
Everyone wants to feel needed, and they may secretly enjoy the fact that you are still desperate for them to return, but if you can show some indifference to the split, no matter how much you are hurting, it may make them question their feelings for you and whether the split was the right decision.
They may start to feel a little rejected themselves, and this may help you get back with your ex that much quicker.
Give yourself a spring clean Decide that in the meantime, you are going to give yourself a quick makeover.
Treat yourself to some new clothes and maybe a new hairdo, you don't have to go for a whole new image just something to make you feel a bit better about yourself.
Perhaps you could take up a new fitness regime, if you get yourself feeling fitter and leaner it will help you regain your confidence after the break up.
A new you will help rekindle the physical attraction that your ex felt for you, one of the things that brought you together in the first place.
Get on with your life Whatever you do, don't sit at home feeling sorry for yourself.
Get out and about with your old friends.
Getting your old social life back will do wonders for your self esteem.
You will meet new people, and you may even date someone, but don't rush into a relationship on the rebound when you are still hoping to reunite with the real love of your life.
Perhaps you will meet up with your ex, if you do, always be friendly, let them see that your life goes on with or without them.
Your ex seeing you out enjoying yourself will again get them thinking about what they are missing.
If you can try and put these three ideas in to practise, you will give yourself a good chance of getting your ex back, not only that, you can get your ex to be the one that will be begging you to take them back.


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