Make Your Man Want To Spend The Rest Of His Life With You - 2 Things You Must Do To Achieve This
Getting a man to want to commit is not easy; but that's because men are extremely logical (rather than emotional) when it comes to relationships and women.
You see, women will look at the relationship, and they will think about how they FEEL about a man.
You will think that he makes you feel confident, sexy, desirable, understood etc...
whereas a man looks at it in a completely different way.
A man, for instance, will logically consider whether or not he thinks you are compatible in the long term; whether or not he thinks he will be able to support you and a family (if you want one); if being together for a long period will last and if he is capable of keeping you happy etc..
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Thus, a man can rule out his emotions in favor of logical problems that could arise should he choose to spend the rest of his life with you.
This is often why men absolutely freeze and hesitate at the thought of getting married or committing to you.
It's not that he doesn't want to be with you, it's just that there are a lot of road blocks and issues making him feel as though it's not the best thing right now.
Thus, if you want him to WANT to spend the rest of his life with you, without any hesitation, you must do these 2 things: Be The Person He Wants - Do you do things that he hates, and he always has to come back and tell you that he hates it when you do that specific thing? It could be something like biting your nails; or something more serious, such as talking all night and day about what your girlfriends said.
BUT, if he is communicating to you that something you do irritates him, he is only trying to HELP you be the person he wants, so listen to him and exercise restraint.
You'll see that he'll be more close to you after that.
In a relationship it's not always about just being yourself, but rather being your best self.
So always make attempts to improve and be the best you can, as that is what he is truly looking for in the long term.
Make Changes - Some of his reservations to commit could be stemming from concerns that he has over your current state.
Perhaps you argue too much, or he feels that you don't understand him yet.
Maybe you rely on him too much, and he wants you to be more independent.
Look at the things you currently argue about, and this will give you a huge clue as to what his reservations may be with you.
Remember that a man turns to a woman for comfort; support; intimacy; and understanding.
If he feels you are always ruining those moments by your insecurities or arguments; or if he feels that you aren't fulfilling those needs completely for him, he won't feel the need to completely fulfill your need of commitment either, because he sees that you aren't making the necessary changes for him.
You see, women will look at the relationship, and they will think about how they FEEL about a man.
You will think that he makes you feel confident, sexy, desirable, understood etc...
whereas a man looks at it in a completely different way.
A man, for instance, will logically consider whether or not he thinks you are compatible in the long term; whether or not he thinks he will be able to support you and a family (if you want one); if being together for a long period will last and if he is capable of keeping you happy etc..
..
Thus, a man can rule out his emotions in favor of logical problems that could arise should he choose to spend the rest of his life with you.
This is often why men absolutely freeze and hesitate at the thought of getting married or committing to you.
It's not that he doesn't want to be with you, it's just that there are a lot of road blocks and issues making him feel as though it's not the best thing right now.
Thus, if you want him to WANT to spend the rest of his life with you, without any hesitation, you must do these 2 things: Be The Person He Wants - Do you do things that he hates, and he always has to come back and tell you that he hates it when you do that specific thing? It could be something like biting your nails; or something more serious, such as talking all night and day about what your girlfriends said.
BUT, if he is communicating to you that something you do irritates him, he is only trying to HELP you be the person he wants, so listen to him and exercise restraint.
You'll see that he'll be more close to you after that.
In a relationship it's not always about just being yourself, but rather being your best self.
So always make attempts to improve and be the best you can, as that is what he is truly looking for in the long term.
Make Changes - Some of his reservations to commit could be stemming from concerns that he has over your current state.
Perhaps you argue too much, or he feels that you don't understand him yet.
Maybe you rely on him too much, and he wants you to be more independent.
Look at the things you currently argue about, and this will give you a huge clue as to what his reservations may be with you.
Remember that a man turns to a woman for comfort; support; intimacy; and understanding.
If he feels you are always ruining those moments by your insecurities or arguments; or if he feels that you aren't fulfilling those needs completely for him, he won't feel the need to completely fulfill your need of commitment either, because he sees that you aren't making the necessary changes for him.
