Let the Dude Leave a Message
You know how we women can act when it comes to the phone...
we LOVE to talk and we see this as a way to bond and form deeper relationships.
Sometimes we forget that men aren't really wired for endless chatter.
If you gave a man your number, it is very difficult to accept that he doesn't drop everything, put his life on hold and call you as soon you expect.
Another difficult idea to grasp is when he says he'll call and don't or why he just doesn't feel the need to call you every day.
But when he does call, you have to be careful that you're not giving off a desperate energy.
As a matter of fact, you should be training your mind to treat men you are attracted to like your friends without giving them the idea that you just want to be friends.
If you try this with a man, still show interest in his life and that might cause you to get to know him in a way many women don't.
Ok.
So if he calls, break up the pattern.
Don't always run to the phone like you're an Olympian.
For goodness sakes, let the dude leave a message.
There's nothing more beautiful than looking a man's phone number on your call display and deciding that he should wait just a little to get a hold of you.
Make the dude work.
Think about how you'll be at an advantage.
Many women don't get that even though a man is showing interest, he also needs a mental break.
This is crucial to build attraction.
Continual instant gratification usually decreases a man's attraction.
So this is why you have to be the kind of woman who is strong enough to exercise the kind of self-control that will cause a man's interest to continue to build.
we LOVE to talk and we see this as a way to bond and form deeper relationships.
Sometimes we forget that men aren't really wired for endless chatter.
If you gave a man your number, it is very difficult to accept that he doesn't drop everything, put his life on hold and call you as soon you expect.
Another difficult idea to grasp is when he says he'll call and don't or why he just doesn't feel the need to call you every day.
But when he does call, you have to be careful that you're not giving off a desperate energy.
As a matter of fact, you should be training your mind to treat men you are attracted to like your friends without giving them the idea that you just want to be friends.
If you try this with a man, still show interest in his life and that might cause you to get to know him in a way many women don't.
Ok.
So if he calls, break up the pattern.
Don't always run to the phone like you're an Olympian.
For goodness sakes, let the dude leave a message.
There's nothing more beautiful than looking a man's phone number on your call display and deciding that he should wait just a little to get a hold of you.
Make the dude work.
Think about how you'll be at an advantage.
Many women don't get that even though a man is showing interest, he also needs a mental break.
This is crucial to build attraction.
Continual instant gratification usually decreases a man's attraction.
So this is why you have to be the kind of woman who is strong enough to exercise the kind of self-control that will cause a man's interest to continue to build.
