Very often the Holiday season becomes a very stressful time in most peoples' lives. Many of us are running from place to place shopping and we don't even stop to realize the true meaning of the Holiday.  This time of year can be much more than that if we allow it to.  If we just slow the pace a little bit and take time to allow it to be more meaningful it can and will be.  Holidays are a very romantic time and a perfect opportunity to reconnect with our families and loved ones.

Doing little things for the holiday that leave you some spare time for romance can be the best option.  Instead of stressing out and worrying about purchasing the right gift for your spouse for the holiday, look for ways that you can make time to spend quality time and reconnect a little.  

You can bank on the fact that the holidays bring up nostalgia for all of us, and use this as a time to reminisce about your holidays past together and before kids.  Look at pictures from yesterday, or do something for your spouse to let them know that you remember something that was special from their childhood or from a similar holiday you both spent together.

It's true that one of the most important things we can do as a couple is to look back and reminisce about our history together.  This opens the door to loving feelings of the past and helps us see eachother in a new light, or possibly in an old oone.

The Holiday season is the perfect time to find a love that may be lost or missing again.  It is a wonderful time full of treasured memories to recapture.  You will find that your problems almost vanish if you take the time to rekindle what may be missing.