Make Him Pursue You - It"s Easy
Would you love to have a man pursue you? Do you dream or fantasize about that elusive man who actually puts a great amount of effort into winning your heart? Do you want to know what other girls already know? Here are their secrets to making guys crazy and getting them to take those first steps.
One of the greatest secrets to getting a man to pursue you is to seem unattainable.
Men love a challenge, and enjoy the hunt and the chase.
If you think about it, the fact that you so readily give in to the slightest advance can make him think you're so easy, every one has had you.
But if you make him work at it, he'll feel all the more important and special for having won your attention.
So play it calm and relaxed.
There's no rush.
When a man approaches you, smile and be charming, but don't gush or fawn.
Be approachable without being too eager.
If men can sense one thing in a woman, it's desperation, and you don't want him to get that impression from you.
So when he asks you on a Friday night date, tell him you can't.
Don't be haughty or cold about it.
Show him that you would like to see him, but you're simply unavailable that evening.
You may even want to hint at your plans; an evening spent helping a family member, or at a play with a close friend will offer some insight into the person you are.
His interest will be heightened and he's sure to ask you for a date on another night.
Don't play the game too long however.
After a few attempts, he may get the impression you're not interested in him at all.
But if your schedule truly is filled for the coming weeks and you have little or no time to see him, don't cancel your life for him.
Instead, suggest one day or evening when you do have a bit of free time.
Offering him just an hour of your time on a Wednesday afternoon will drive him crazy.
He'll look forward to seeing you, will want to please you, and after spending such a short amount of fun time with you, he'll eagerly look forward to more.
Think of the childhood game of tag; the running, the laughing, the fun and excitement.
If you just stood there and allowed your friend to tag you 'it', where would the fun be? If you want to make him pursue you, you have to be a little harder to catch than that.
One of the greatest secrets to getting a man to pursue you is to seem unattainable.
Men love a challenge, and enjoy the hunt and the chase.
If you think about it, the fact that you so readily give in to the slightest advance can make him think you're so easy, every one has had you.
But if you make him work at it, he'll feel all the more important and special for having won your attention.
So play it calm and relaxed.
There's no rush.
When a man approaches you, smile and be charming, but don't gush or fawn.
Be approachable without being too eager.
If men can sense one thing in a woman, it's desperation, and you don't want him to get that impression from you.
So when he asks you on a Friday night date, tell him you can't.
Don't be haughty or cold about it.
Show him that you would like to see him, but you're simply unavailable that evening.
You may even want to hint at your plans; an evening spent helping a family member, or at a play with a close friend will offer some insight into the person you are.
His interest will be heightened and he's sure to ask you for a date on another night.
Don't play the game too long however.
After a few attempts, he may get the impression you're not interested in him at all.
But if your schedule truly is filled for the coming weeks and you have little or no time to see him, don't cancel your life for him.
Instead, suggest one day or evening when you do have a bit of free time.
Offering him just an hour of your time on a Wednesday afternoon will drive him crazy.
He'll look forward to seeing you, will want to please you, and after spending such a short amount of fun time with you, he'll eagerly look forward to more.
Think of the childhood game of tag; the running, the laughing, the fun and excitement.
If you just stood there and allowed your friend to tag you 'it', where would the fun be? If you want to make him pursue you, you have to be a little harder to catch than that.
