First Steps After Breaking Up - The Magic Of Making Up
So you are sitting there ...crying ...sighing...
And maybe youre thinking about ...dying?
Everybody plays the fool ...sometimes...
No Exception to the ruuule ...
The words of this ol song may fit your situation right now you are sitting there alone wondering what happened, and why you broke up, wishing you could be making up instead of breaking up!
Everybody goes through a relationship breakup or breakdown, at some point in his or her life.
Some relationships are made to last a lifetime, but most relationships we make, will end.
When it comes to a long-term love though, a break up does not mean that you can never make up!
If you and your love had something going on there, that you know is worth saving, then there is hope. You can turn the situation around.
Did you know there is almost a formula that works like magic in making up? This formula is so powerful that you really need to be sure that this person is someone you truly love and want to be with for the rest of your life.
This is the time to search your heart. Think back to the start of your relationship ... what were the things about your ex that switched your buttons on? Do you still find them attractive now?
Think back to what attracted them to you? Are you still that same fun-loving caring person they fell in love with?
Sometimes as the relationship goes past the fresh new flush of first love, it gets stale. Maybe you both had started taking each other for granted. Maybe you had begun to treat each other with a little less respect.
On the other hand, maybe some event caused one, or both of you, to act out of character, and this is what started the bust up.
Whatever the reason or reasons, they need identifying and dealing with.
If you show or tell your ex that you accept the breakup because of what happened, and that you have dealt with it, this step could be your first step in getting back together again.
Often in a breakup, hurtful words fly. They come from pain and hurt, but sometimes there can also be an element of truth in them. Use this information to make the changes needed to restore your relationship.
A sincere, heartfelt apology at the right time will go a long way to open lines of communication between you. So that you both can move forward and rebuild your lives together, there will come a time for forgiveness and acceptance.
And maybe youre thinking about ...dying?
Everybody plays the fool ...sometimes...
No Exception to the ruuule ...
The words of this ol song may fit your situation right now you are sitting there alone wondering what happened, and why you broke up, wishing you could be making up instead of breaking up!
Everybody goes through a relationship breakup or breakdown, at some point in his or her life.
Some relationships are made to last a lifetime, but most relationships we make, will end.
When it comes to a long-term love though, a break up does not mean that you can never make up!
If you and your love had something going on there, that you know is worth saving, then there is hope. You can turn the situation around.
Did you know there is almost a formula that works like magic in making up? This formula is so powerful that you really need to be sure that this person is someone you truly love and want to be with for the rest of your life.
This is the time to search your heart. Think back to the start of your relationship ... what were the things about your ex that switched your buttons on? Do you still find them attractive now?
Think back to what attracted them to you? Are you still that same fun-loving caring person they fell in love with?
Sometimes as the relationship goes past the fresh new flush of first love, it gets stale. Maybe you both had started taking each other for granted. Maybe you had begun to treat each other with a little less respect.
On the other hand, maybe some event caused one, or both of you, to act out of character, and this is what started the bust up.
Whatever the reason or reasons, they need identifying and dealing with.
If you show or tell your ex that you accept the breakup because of what happened, and that you have dealt with it, this step could be your first step in getting back together again.
Often in a breakup, hurtful words fly. They come from pain and hurt, but sometimes there can also be an element of truth in them. Use this information to make the changes needed to restore your relationship.
A sincere, heartfelt apology at the right time will go a long way to open lines of communication between you. So that you both can move forward and rebuild your lives together, there will come a time for forgiveness and acceptance.
