Three Tricks To Getting Back With Your Ex
If you are over 18 you have most likely suffered a breakup in your life. If this is you, I bet countless people have told you how much better off you are and you should simply move on.
What if you don't like being rejected? What if you are truly in love with your ex and are willing to fight to get them back? What if you want your ex back, and don't want to simply move forward?
Less than 10 percent of relationships can't be saved. If you are up to following a rigid plan, the odds are overwhelmingly in your favor. This is merely a stumbling block to living the rest of your life together with your ex. Here are some tips that will help you in your quest to get my ex back.
You need to discover what actually is behind your ex leaving. There may have been a final straw, an argument, a fight. Chances are this is not the underlying cause. It is usually a combination of things over time that caused the rift. Chances are the blame belongs to both of you and not just one of you.
Usually it is not something one of you do or did, it is usually an attitude. Do you regularly disrespect them or what they say? Did you take your ex for granted? Are you over critical? Are you too controlling? Are you guilty of not listening? Hopefully you get the picture and idea here.
You can say you're sorry for an individual action, however this will not have the same effect of apologizing for the way you made your ex feel.
Here is an example. Which would upset your ex more, the fact that you flirted with someone else, or the attitude they perceive you have that you don't respect them?
Even if this is not what you meant, if they perceive it that way, it is true for them. Which apology would move you toward getting an ex back? I'm sorry I was flirting, or I apologize for not considering how my actions made you feel unappreciated? If you get this right, half the battle to get back an ex is over.
Next tip, be strong. This has nothing to do with the muscle tone. People are attracted to strong minds. Do not be needy. Nothing is uglier than someone who needs constant attention. We, as well as all animals, try to perpetuate survival of the fittest. Someone who is whiny, needy and clingy shows that they don't have any internal strength of character. We want someone who can take care of them self.
How many ladies are attracted to a complete wimp? How many men want a wife or future mother of your children that is unstable by themselves? Our brains have been hard wired for this. Nothing could make you more attractive to your ex than them believing are OK without them.
Final tip, jealousy will not work. Trying this ploy will practically guarantee you WILL NOT get back your ex. This is a ploy that will be instantly seen as an act of desperation. Your ex will be happy you are now someone else's problem.
What if you don't like being rejected? What if you are truly in love with your ex and are willing to fight to get them back? What if you want your ex back, and don't want to simply move forward?
Less than 10 percent of relationships can't be saved. If you are up to following a rigid plan, the odds are overwhelmingly in your favor. This is merely a stumbling block to living the rest of your life together with your ex. Here are some tips that will help you in your quest to get my ex back.
You need to discover what actually is behind your ex leaving. There may have been a final straw, an argument, a fight. Chances are this is not the underlying cause. It is usually a combination of things over time that caused the rift. Chances are the blame belongs to both of you and not just one of you.
Usually it is not something one of you do or did, it is usually an attitude. Do you regularly disrespect them or what they say? Did you take your ex for granted? Are you over critical? Are you too controlling? Are you guilty of not listening? Hopefully you get the picture and idea here.
You can say you're sorry for an individual action, however this will not have the same effect of apologizing for the way you made your ex feel.
Here is an example. Which would upset your ex more, the fact that you flirted with someone else, or the attitude they perceive you have that you don't respect them?
Even if this is not what you meant, if they perceive it that way, it is true for them. Which apology would move you toward getting an ex back? I'm sorry I was flirting, or I apologize for not considering how my actions made you feel unappreciated? If you get this right, half the battle to get back an ex is over.
Next tip, be strong. This has nothing to do with the muscle tone. People are attracted to strong minds. Do not be needy. Nothing is uglier than someone who needs constant attention. We, as well as all animals, try to perpetuate survival of the fittest. Someone who is whiny, needy and clingy shows that they don't have any internal strength of character. We want someone who can take care of them self.
How many ladies are attracted to a complete wimp? How many men want a wife or future mother of your children that is unstable by themselves? Our brains have been hard wired for this. Nothing could make you more attractive to your ex than them believing are OK without them.
Final tip, jealousy will not work. Trying this ploy will practically guarantee you WILL NOT get back your ex. This is a ploy that will be instantly seen as an act of desperation. Your ex will be happy you are now someone else's problem.
