How to Capture a Woman"s Attention
You see her from across the room, your dream girl, you are sure of it.
Best of all, she just flashed her dazzling smile your way.
Now she is walking your way, but you feel a fist sized lump building in your throat and your stomach is starting to churn.
This story can now go one of two ways; either you get the girl of your dreams, or she walks away forever with the impression that you are a social reject.
Talking to women is easy, once you get the hang of it.
However, many men struggle when they have to relate to the opposite sex.
This of course is a major source of embarrassment for most men.
While women are very complex, that doesn't mean they should intimidate you.
In fact, women love guys with self-confidence.
The easiest way to show a woman you are self-confident is by simply engaging in a meaningful conversation with them.
Now for the big secret, most women enjoy talking! Therefore, all you have to do is guide the conversation and the woman will handle the majority of the talking.
Starting a conversation with a woman is as simple as introducing yourself.
Then you simply ask her open-ended questions about herself.
Try to keep the conversation focused on her unless she asks you questions about yourself.
Most women will be impressed that you are taking an interest in what she has to say.
Too many guys make the mistake of talking about themselves and putting the focus of the conversation on them.
If you want to truly impress a woman, make the focus of the conversation about her.
Her interests, her passions, her pet peeves, etc.
Women love a sense of humor, so don't forget to crack a joke or two.
Getting her to laugh will make her more relaxed and at ease.
You can make a joke about yourself, but make it light hearted.
You don't want to put yourself down too often in front of her, because this will create a negative image around yourself.
Practice starting up conversations with women when you are out in public, even if you aren't attracted to them.
When there isn't an attraction, usually your nerves will be at ease.
Eventually all of these habits will become second nature, which is your obvious goal.
The more you practice talking to women, the easier it gets.
Remember, if you want to change something in your life, you must go outside of your comfort zone.
The potential rewards could be even better than you hoped for!
Best of all, she just flashed her dazzling smile your way.
Now she is walking your way, but you feel a fist sized lump building in your throat and your stomach is starting to churn.
This story can now go one of two ways; either you get the girl of your dreams, or she walks away forever with the impression that you are a social reject.
Talking to women is easy, once you get the hang of it.
However, many men struggle when they have to relate to the opposite sex.
This of course is a major source of embarrassment for most men.
While women are very complex, that doesn't mean they should intimidate you.
In fact, women love guys with self-confidence.
The easiest way to show a woman you are self-confident is by simply engaging in a meaningful conversation with them.
Now for the big secret, most women enjoy talking! Therefore, all you have to do is guide the conversation and the woman will handle the majority of the talking.
Starting a conversation with a woman is as simple as introducing yourself.
Then you simply ask her open-ended questions about herself.
Try to keep the conversation focused on her unless she asks you questions about yourself.
Most women will be impressed that you are taking an interest in what she has to say.
Too many guys make the mistake of talking about themselves and putting the focus of the conversation on them.
If you want to truly impress a woman, make the focus of the conversation about her.
Her interests, her passions, her pet peeves, etc.
Women love a sense of humor, so don't forget to crack a joke or two.
Getting her to laugh will make her more relaxed and at ease.
You can make a joke about yourself, but make it light hearted.
You don't want to put yourself down too often in front of her, because this will create a negative image around yourself.
Practice starting up conversations with women when you are out in public, even if you aren't attracted to them.
When there isn't an attraction, usually your nerves will be at ease.
Eventually all of these habits will become second nature, which is your obvious goal.
The more you practice talking to women, the easier it gets.
Remember, if you want to change something in your life, you must go outside of your comfort zone.
The potential rewards could be even better than you hoped for!
