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The Stages of Relationship Dissolution

    Problem Realization

    • The first step of relationship dissolution is the realization that there is something wrong. In this stage, people often begin to realize they are dissatisfied with one or more aspects of the relationship.

    Unveiling of Problems

    • The second step of relationship dissolution is when the problem or problems are unveiled. The unveiling may occur because one or both individuals begins to mention that they are troubled or the issues may be brought to light by a third party who is somehow involved with one or both individuals.

    Relationship Compromise

    • The third step is the discussion phase. During this phase, the couple openly discusses the concerns and issues at hand and negotiation and compromise should take over here. Both individuals openly discuss what they need going forward to sustain the relationship. Some couples choose to seek out counseling in order to help them get through the difficult period. Additionally, discussion regarding what happens if needs aren't met by a predetermined time also takes place.

    Relationship Salvation

    • Step four is the literal putting into action of step three. In this step, both individuals provide the other with what they need, whether it's emotional, physical, spiritual or verbal. If counseling was agreed upon, the couple regularly attends counseling sessions to work through the dissolution.

    Relationship Decision

    • Finally, step five involves the coming together of both individuals to engage in a discussion about progress or success. If both individuals feel unfulfilled at the end of the period they've set to work through the problems, then couples typically end the relationship and go their separate ways.



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