One of the worst things that a man can do when he wants to win back the heart and the love of his ex is to go around desperate for her attention and affection. This does nothing at all to make her want you back, all it does is make her want to get away from you. While it might seem to be the solution to try and win her back, the truth is, you have to attract her back if you want to get together again for GOOD.

So, how do you build this attraction with your ex-girlfriend?

1. Take it a bit slower than normal. When you already have a past with a woman, then you usually do not want to rush back into things with her. This is good for both you and for her. If you want to attract her back, then you cannot try and speed things up without thinking about the consequences first.

2. Flirt with her, but do it RIGHT. You absolutely have to start flirting with her again if you want to have her in your arms again. The problem is, you have to flirt with her the RIGHT way. If you do it wrong, then it's pretty safe to assume that you will have blown it my friend.

3. Get her to make some of the moves on YOU. If you want to attract her back, then you cannot be the only one that tries to make a move. You have to do little things to tease and entice HER to make the move on you. Wouldn't it feel good to have your ex-girlfriend trying to put the moves on you? This is needed to make it really feel like she is just going with the moment.