2 Great Attention Grabbing Ways to Approach Girls
Scaring yourself at the thought of approaching a woman won't help you improve your dating life.
In fact, if you don't get over your fear of rejection soon, all the good ones will be taken and you'll end up passing on every available girl in a club or a party.
Remember, you never get a chance to approach a woman twice.
Once you let go of the chance to get to know a woman, it's gone.
You may try approaching another woman in the future, but it won't be with that girl or with the other girls you ALMOST approached.
If you're looking for some ways to help you approach girls, I have some tips for you.
However, as Morpheus said to Neo in The Matrix, "I can only show you the door.
You're the one who has to walk through it" How to Approach Women - Two Tips 1.
Look out for IOI's (indicators of interest) Stop being clueless about the flirting signals most women show to catch a man's attention.
Ignorance to IOI's is the main reason why some guys fail with women.
They scan a room still believing that they're not attractive enough to command attention.
The truth is that there are always a few women around checking you out; so open your eyes and look out for these "appreciative" stares.
Some women are more subtle about it (like those who look at you then giggle with their friends).
Again, how you interpret this behavior depends on your level of insecurity and how attractive you think you are.
Take the attention in stride, and always ASSUME that the girls checking you out are genuinely curious and interested.
This will boost your confidence when the time comes for you to approach.
When you notice a girl looking your way, meet her gaze and hold it for a few seconds.
Smile slightly then look away like nothing happened.
The purpose of the stare is to acknowledge her staring at you.
You looked away because you've already tagged her as a "potential" target for approach a few minutes afterward.
If you respond to the IOI's early, it's easier to strike up a conversation with one of these girls later on.
2.
Never Let Your Self-doubt Show One thing that makes a woman say no is DOUBT.
For instance, when a guy uses words that tell of his insecurities, a woman literally jumps back and says "heck no, I'm not going out with you".
This has become so automatic for a girl, it's almost instinctive.
When you add "maybe?" and "uhm?" to your date invitations, or when you're asking for her number, you're giving a woman a reason to say no.
Phrase your date offers like it's the irrevocable truth so that she won't even think of saying no.
If she does say no, don't sweat it.
It's not like she's the only girl in the room, right? Here's a final reminder if you want to close a girl fast.
Always approach a girl with a date plan in mind.
This is important because there's always a 50% chance that a girl will say yes.
You don't want to be caught off guard without a plan in mind when a girl jumps at the chance to spend more time with you.
Chances are, a woman will be curious about what you plan on doing during your date, so follow through with a well-planned weekend agenda or there's a huge chance that you'll have to deal with a flake out.
In fact, if you don't get over your fear of rejection soon, all the good ones will be taken and you'll end up passing on every available girl in a club or a party.
Remember, you never get a chance to approach a woman twice.
Once you let go of the chance to get to know a woman, it's gone.
You may try approaching another woman in the future, but it won't be with that girl or with the other girls you ALMOST approached.
If you're looking for some ways to help you approach girls, I have some tips for you.
However, as Morpheus said to Neo in The Matrix, "I can only show you the door.
You're the one who has to walk through it" How to Approach Women - Two Tips 1.
Look out for IOI's (indicators of interest) Stop being clueless about the flirting signals most women show to catch a man's attention.
Ignorance to IOI's is the main reason why some guys fail with women.
They scan a room still believing that they're not attractive enough to command attention.
The truth is that there are always a few women around checking you out; so open your eyes and look out for these "appreciative" stares.
Some women are more subtle about it (like those who look at you then giggle with their friends).
Again, how you interpret this behavior depends on your level of insecurity and how attractive you think you are.
Take the attention in stride, and always ASSUME that the girls checking you out are genuinely curious and interested.
This will boost your confidence when the time comes for you to approach.
When you notice a girl looking your way, meet her gaze and hold it for a few seconds.
Smile slightly then look away like nothing happened.
The purpose of the stare is to acknowledge her staring at you.
You looked away because you've already tagged her as a "potential" target for approach a few minutes afterward.
If you respond to the IOI's early, it's easier to strike up a conversation with one of these girls later on.
2.
Never Let Your Self-doubt Show One thing that makes a woman say no is DOUBT.
For instance, when a guy uses words that tell of his insecurities, a woman literally jumps back and says "heck no, I'm not going out with you".
This has become so automatic for a girl, it's almost instinctive.
When you add "maybe?" and "uhm?" to your date invitations, or when you're asking for her number, you're giving a woman a reason to say no.
Phrase your date offers like it's the irrevocable truth so that she won't even think of saying no.
If she does say no, don't sweat it.
It's not like she's the only girl in the room, right? Here's a final reminder if you want to close a girl fast.
Always approach a girl with a date plan in mind.
This is important because there's always a 50% chance that a girl will say yes.
You don't want to be caught off guard without a plan in mind when a girl jumps at the chance to spend more time with you.
Chances are, a woman will be curious about what you plan on doing during your date, so follow through with a well-planned weekend agenda or there's a huge chance that you'll have to deal with a flake out.
