Have you ever tried to do something romantic, only to have the whole thing backfire on you? It is no surprise we seem confused. We are! Sometimes our good intentions are met with disappointment, and even disapproval. Like the one time I bought my girlfriend roses. We had a date that evening and I assumed she would be truly pleased after I dispatched the bouquet to her office. She was surprised, however that evening all I received was an earache and sore arms. She was continually wondering what I had done to make me feel guilty that I had to purchase her the red roses, and kept bringing the subject up all night. And then she insisted on having the roses with us on our evening out, so guess who got to carry the bunch around all evening? So my expensive gesture fell flat on its face and did not improve things at all. We ended up having yet another blazing row. In hindsight it was a little bit foolish sending her flowers to her workplace when I knew we had plans to go out to town that Friday night. However I was simply making an attempt to be romantic!

That is simply one among many examples of mistakes I used to make when it came to romantic gestures. As a substitute for making my relationship happier, it just led to more fights. Getting over a break up, time and time again, was no fun. I felt that I actually wanted some solid break up advice, or suggestions on how to avoid break ups. For a short time I even started to buy ladies magazines to see if I could figure all of it out, from a lady's perspective. Eventually I bit the bullet and purchased a relationship course.

Little did I know, until I took the course, that there is a recipe for relationship success. Certainly some folks have it natually, however these persons are in the minority. Others, like me, are continuously questioning why they are consistently getting over a break up. It could possibly get so bad that you find yourself really doubting youself, and whether or not you're always selecting the unsuitable partner. But the fact is that communication between the two sexes isn't always easy. There are many mixed messages and confusing signals.

Why do you suppose so many couples who appear well suited break up? They haven't all had affairs. The truth is in case you ask them why they've broken up, they usually can't tell you but most of the time they're nonetheless getting over a break up and desperately want to get back with their ex. However you'll usually find that they are clueless about how to do so.

Let me tell you now that I have the recipe for success in relationships, I can now be romantic with my girlfriend and have my efforts appreciated. Now I am the one giving the anti break up advice. Get a blueprint to having a successful, blissful relationship right now and soon all your friends might be asking you for relationship advice too!