How to kiss? It seems like a really odd and 'rolling your eyes' question. But seriously, you wouldn't believe how many guys i have dated who didn't have a clue of how to deliver a fine kiss. You know.... the guy who only uses tongue and shove it up your mouth indiscriminately; or the guy who opens his mouth so much that every time he kisses your lips never touch his. 

Don't worry, there is nothing to be anxious about if you are kissing for the first time.


Kissing is not a very special art but avoiding situations like the ones I just mentioned is important specially if you don't want to awkwardly interrupt foreplay with your partner.

The key to kissing is to keep it simple. Physical intimacy is best when instinctual as opposed to outlined and calculated. However, I will offer some basic ideas.

Start small with a couple of soft, short lip kisses and build to longer deeper tongue kisses. With this technique helps build trust and intimacy with your partner. Control the amount of saliva in your mouth. Too much saliva can be a turn off... Or not. Some guys actually like it. Try to avoid an endless repetition of the same kind of kiss and alter your rhythm for more arousal. There is nothing more discouraging than hook up with a guy who does not allow himself to be adventurous in bed.

Also, let your tongue wander to other parts of the body. The neck, ear-lobes, and nipples are all highly erogenous areas of the body. Be as gentil or as harsh as your partner allows - his body language will let you know.

 

Every partner will vary in his preference, but it is up to you to figure out what turns him on. If kissing him in a particular spot continually provokes him to back away and giggle, then you've probably hit his funny bone and missed his erogenous zone. But that should not discourage you from trying something else. Try to kiss and use your tongue on the pelvic area. some guys just go crazy with a great rimming session.  

Remember that you are not kissing your pillow (even if you used it for training), kissing your partners body and figuring out what turns him on is such a pleasurable sensation that it can only give you motivation. Most importantly, be natural. Sex is an art, not a sport, although some athleticism may be required. There is nothing more enticing than a mate who is comfortable with his sexuality, so just let it flow.