Do you have a wild crush on a guy you know, and you'd like to do something to make him fall in love with you? Have you watched your girlfriend build a solid and good relationship with a man, but you don't understand how she did it? Do men seem only interested in knowing you for a night, then they move on? Maybe you need to rethink the emotional trigger you're trying to click on.

When trying to build a real relationship with a man, it is more effective to work at creating an emotional bond, rather than concentrating on building a sexual one. This doesn't mean that your sexuality can't be in the vicinity, but the rest of who you are – funny, intelligent, hard working, witty – should all be in the forefront.

Have dates that will show all these sides of you and more. Sure guys do ultimately want to have sex with the woman they're attracted to, but he also wants to know that there is something else going on in there. This may surprise you, but when he goes to talk to his buddies about the time he had with you, he really does want to be able to brag about a bunch of stuff regarding you.

He's proud to say that you have a great job, and he's eager to tell them of how wild and adventurous you are. He wants his friends to envy the great woman he was able to spend time with… and that doesn't have to be sex.

If all he has to say about you is that you're good in bed, he won't be talking about you for long.

In addition to this, men feel a need to prove themselves and they enjoy knowing that they've impressed you and that you hold a certain amount of admiration for them. Don't go crazy and start compliment every little thing he does and don't blow out of proportion some tiny deed, but do recognize when you should show your appreciation for him.

All this will have him falling in love with you.