The Art of Flirting with Women
Flirting is a natural instinct that both men and women possess and use. It is important to know how to read signals and body language and interpret them as flirting, then respond. Men can learn to interpret women’s gestures and then become proficient at flirting with women.
Here are some tips for effectively flirting with women:
1. When you walk into a room, stand upright (good posture) with your head up (not down), shoulders back and arms by your sides. Find a place to sit or stand and establish it as your “territory” by putting some items on the table – keys, phone, food, drink, coins, lighter, whatever is in your pockets – just not your wallet.
2. Slowly scan the room and pick out all the women in the room. If a woman is looking at you too and you find her attractive, keep your gaze on her for a while longer. Don’t look away before she does. If a woman looks away from you and then turns her back to you, then it probably indicates that she is involved in a relationship or is not currently looking for one. Don’t take this personally. If a woman looks at the floor this is a “submissive” gesture and probably indicates that she is interested in you.
3. If a woman is flirting with you, she will fluff her hair, put on some lipstick, lick her lips, adjust her clothing or straighten up in her chair and subconsciously point her breasts at you. She may also cross and uncross her legs.
When you are flirting with women and trying to read their body language, it helps to know the psychology behind the flirting. Since women will be the ones to carry a baby in pregnancy they are programmed to look for a man who is not only strong and confident (protective), but that will stick around to provide for them and their baby.
On the other hand, a man is programmed to impregnate as many women as possible to carry on their gene pool. These are obviously two very different goals, but somehow we do meet in the middle and find life partners eventually.
Flirting with women is easy if you know what to look for. The main idea is to remain alert and receptive to any flirting that is directed at you by a woman if you find her interesting or attractive.
Here are some tips for effectively flirting with women:
1. When you walk into a room, stand upright (good posture) with your head up (not down), shoulders back and arms by your sides. Find a place to sit or stand and establish it as your “territory” by putting some items on the table – keys, phone, food, drink, coins, lighter, whatever is in your pockets – just not your wallet.
2. Slowly scan the room and pick out all the women in the room. If a woman is looking at you too and you find her attractive, keep your gaze on her for a while longer. Don’t look away before she does. If a woman looks away from you and then turns her back to you, then it probably indicates that she is involved in a relationship or is not currently looking for one. Don’t take this personally. If a woman looks at the floor this is a “submissive” gesture and probably indicates that she is interested in you.
3. If a woman is flirting with you, she will fluff her hair, put on some lipstick, lick her lips, adjust her clothing or straighten up in her chair and subconsciously point her breasts at you. She may also cross and uncross her legs.
When you are flirting with women and trying to read their body language, it helps to know the psychology behind the flirting. Since women will be the ones to carry a baby in pregnancy they are programmed to look for a man who is not only strong and confident (protective), but that will stick around to provide for them and their baby.
On the other hand, a man is programmed to impregnate as many women as possible to carry on their gene pool. These are obviously two very different goals, but somehow we do meet in the middle and find life partners eventually.
Flirting with women is easy if you know what to look for. The main idea is to remain alert and receptive to any flirting that is directed at you by a woman if you find her interesting or attractive.
