How to Deal With a Rude Roommate
- 1). Track the problems you're having with your roommate. Note if the issues seem to be a few problems here and there or if you're stifled by his rude behavior. List the day and time of the incidents for your own reference so you'll know if he watches television on high volume every night or if it's just when he's watching a big game.
- 2). Approach your roommate for a chat. Ask her if you two can discuss a couple of things that have been bothering you. Keep the conversation neutral to avoid placing blame and igniting things to a heated debate. Bring up the issues you have, and be specific. Let her know that it could just be a matter of the differences you both have, perhaps in upbringing or in your personal styles.
- 3). Give your roommate a chance to respond and react. Listen intently, and notice any signs of remorse or sincerity. If he apologizes, it could be because he didn't realize how his actions were affecting you.
- 4). Come up with a solution. Devise a plan that makes the living situation bearable. Go into a different part of the house when your roommate is around. Offer to put up a cleaning schedule or a sign on the door for when either of you is sleeping or studying. Try to be as amicable as you can to avoid getting into a confrontation.
- 5). Find a new roommate if no solution can be created or if your roommate continues to be rude. Report her to your property manager so that your request to move out or to get your roommate replaced is documented and in action. Secure your things behind a locked door in case your roommate decides to retaliate.
