How to Approach Women - Tips to Help Make the Approach Seem Easier for You
Time and time again when guys have questions about dating and meeting women, the approach is one of the first things that comes up. If you don't feel comfortable in approaching a woman, join the club. Most men feel just like you and that is one of the major reasons why most single men end up staying at home or hanging out with the guys again. If you are going to get the dating part of your life handled, then you need to be able to walk up to a woman with no qualms and get her talking to you.
Approach anxiety is a commonly discussed issue when it comes to circles of men who are trying to get their dating life handled, and many men seem to suffer from this. The anxiety tends to mostly come from the fear of rejecion, though there are people who make other suggestions of why this is. Still, if a part of you is afraid that you might get rejected by a woman, chances are... you are going to feel some anxiety about the situation.
Here are some tips to help the make approach seem easier for you:
1) Realize that women feel some of the same anxiety when a guy approaches them.
Put yourself in the shoes of a woman for a minute. Let's say that she is pretty and guys all want to get some attention from her. So, when she is at a bar with some friends just to hang out, she has to deal with men trying to hit on her and pick her up. After a while, that's going to cause some anxiety anytime a guy approaches her, unless they know how to make her feel at ease. Think about that for a minute when you want to approach a woman in a bar, and that can make the situation seem a little more evenly tilted which will make it seem like an easier situation for you.
2) If you already have something in mind to say to her, you will feel less anxious.
One of the bigger sources of worry for a lot of guys about making the approach, is that they are unsure about what they are going to say after they initiate the conversation. That can be kind of perplexing to say the least. That's why it is a good idea to have something in mind that you want to say, so that you can lead the conversation after you open her.
3) Get knocked down once, you need to get back up again.
Just like anything else in life, you are not going to be successful every single time that you try to approach a woman and get a date or a phone number. Hey, Michael Jordan did not make every shot and he's considered to be the greatest, right? Once you get knocked down by a woman, get yourself back up, learn from it, and move on to the next one with confidence.
Approach anxiety is a commonly discussed issue when it comes to circles of men who are trying to get their dating life handled, and many men seem to suffer from this. The anxiety tends to mostly come from the fear of rejecion, though there are people who make other suggestions of why this is. Still, if a part of you is afraid that you might get rejected by a woman, chances are... you are going to feel some anxiety about the situation.
Here are some tips to help the make approach seem easier for you:
1) Realize that women feel some of the same anxiety when a guy approaches them.
Put yourself in the shoes of a woman for a minute. Let's say that she is pretty and guys all want to get some attention from her. So, when she is at a bar with some friends just to hang out, she has to deal with men trying to hit on her and pick her up. After a while, that's going to cause some anxiety anytime a guy approaches her, unless they know how to make her feel at ease. Think about that for a minute when you want to approach a woman in a bar, and that can make the situation seem a little more evenly tilted which will make it seem like an easier situation for you.
2) If you already have something in mind to say to her, you will feel less anxious.
One of the bigger sources of worry for a lot of guys about making the approach, is that they are unsure about what they are going to say after they initiate the conversation. That can be kind of perplexing to say the least. That's why it is a good idea to have something in mind that you want to say, so that you can lead the conversation after you open her.
3) Get knocked down once, you need to get back up again.
Just like anything else in life, you are not going to be successful every single time that you try to approach a woman and get a date or a phone number. Hey, Michael Jordan did not make every shot and he's considered to be the greatest, right? Once you get knocked down by a woman, get yourself back up, learn from it, and move on to the next one with confidence.
