What Not To Do To Get Your Ex Back - Avoiding Disaster
There are a lot of things you can do to make getting your ex back a lot easier...but there are just as many, if not MORE, that can make it ten times harder! Try to avoid these mistakes, and others like them.
1) Text-Message Terrorism: When you're freshly broken-up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, the loneliness and desperation can make it really hard to moderate your actions. A very common mistake is to flood your ex with text messages or phone calls pleading for a second chance or trying to prove your love and dedication. All this does is make your ex sick of hearing from you and make it harder to really communicate with him or her.
2) Drunk Dialing: This is when you've had a few drinks, and the alcohol either starts talking you into doing things you know you shouldn't or gets in the way of talking yourself out of it. Either way, your will is gone and all you know is how lonely you feel. So what do you do? You whip out your phone, call up your ex, and pour your heart out into your phone about all the things you're feeling right now and how much you miss your ex and want her back...and in the morning you realize how bad an idea that really was.
3) The Pity Party: It's an easy trap to fall into...you feel so dejected and depressed that you just sit around your apartment and do absolutely nothing. This may not be as outwardly destructive so far as how it affects your ex, but it's extremely bad for you yourself. If you're so caught up in your own self-loathing and sadness, you won't be taking the necessary steps to pull your life back together and do something about your problems. It's vital that you not let yourself fall into this rut...it can be really hard to climb back out.
Don't worry too much if you've already made one or all of these mistakes...it hurts your chances, but doesn't kill them if you deal with it the right way. To find out how to get your ex back even if you've already fell victim to these classic mistakes, check out the free articles, videos, and proven plan
1) Text-Message Terrorism: When you're freshly broken-up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, the loneliness and desperation can make it really hard to moderate your actions. A very common mistake is to flood your ex with text messages or phone calls pleading for a second chance or trying to prove your love and dedication. All this does is make your ex sick of hearing from you and make it harder to really communicate with him or her.
2) Drunk Dialing: This is when you've had a few drinks, and the alcohol either starts talking you into doing things you know you shouldn't or gets in the way of talking yourself out of it. Either way, your will is gone and all you know is how lonely you feel. So what do you do? You whip out your phone, call up your ex, and pour your heart out into your phone about all the things you're feeling right now and how much you miss your ex and want her back...and in the morning you realize how bad an idea that really was.
3) The Pity Party: It's an easy trap to fall into...you feel so dejected and depressed that you just sit around your apartment and do absolutely nothing. This may not be as outwardly destructive so far as how it affects your ex, but it's extremely bad for you yourself. If you're so caught up in your own self-loathing and sadness, you won't be taking the necessary steps to pull your life back together and do something about your problems. It's vital that you not let yourself fall into this rut...it can be really hard to climb back out.
Don't worry too much if you've already made one or all of these mistakes...it hurts your chances, but doesn't kill them if you deal with it the right way. To find out how to get your ex back even if you've already fell victim to these classic mistakes, check out the free articles, videos, and proven plan
