Making an Unemotional Decision to Have a Face Lift
Face lift or none, in life you have to have the right perspective.
The years go by, and gravity begins to pull on the entire body.
The skin becomes less elastic with age and environmental factors, and gravity takes over.
Before anyone knows it, you can hardly see because your eyelid skin is almost covering your eyes.
Sagging skin can be a real problem, but many people who get plastic surgery are not worried about medical issues from sagging facial skin.
They are worried about being old.
Age makes them feel like life is almost over.
It really is all about perspective.
Before even considering a face lift, it is important to look at yourself in the right way.
When you look in the mirror, hopefully you do not focus on the wrinkles in your face and neck.
Hopefully you look at yourself, and see you.
If you have ever seen pictures of an elderly individual when they were young, you sometimes can only tell it is the same person by looking at their eyes.
Perhaps that is why eyes are thought to be the window to the soul.
Your eyes do not really age, yes, trials and hardships change the way they look, dementia can make them seem like there is a blank stare, but really the eyes stay the same.
Your face is simply a façade covering the real you.
It does not matter if it is wrinkled as long as you are still inside.
Before looking at having a face lift, you need to know that you will still be you after the procedure.
You must not have expectations that are too high, because over time, that face lift will droop, and you will need to have it done again.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to look your best as long as possible.
There is no reason to have wrinkles if you have a way and means to stop them, but just remember that your perspective must not be that you need to change.
You are still you no matter how your face appears.
This is why plastic surgeons like to make sure that people are emotionally stable before plastic surgery.
Sometimes people have their expectations set far too high.
If you are in the midst of your mid-life crisis, you might think that you are young again and can conquer the world.
In some ways this is a positive thing.
It is good to keep active and young.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to look it too, just do not let it overtake you.
You are still you no matter how many plastic surgeries you have done.
After you have looked in the mirror for a few minutes and have seen who you are, you might realize that you are still there.
Your eyes are the same.
You might decide that you are actually aging gracefully, but you might decide that even so, you want to look your best, and a face lift is the way to do it.
That is not an emotionally driven decision.
That is a logical one, and there is nothing wrong with it.
Once you make the choice, find a plastic surgeon that has the same perspective.
Find one who reminds you that no matter how many plastic surgeries you have, you are still you.
The years go by, and gravity begins to pull on the entire body.
The skin becomes less elastic with age and environmental factors, and gravity takes over.
Before anyone knows it, you can hardly see because your eyelid skin is almost covering your eyes.
Sagging skin can be a real problem, but many people who get plastic surgery are not worried about medical issues from sagging facial skin.
They are worried about being old.
Age makes them feel like life is almost over.
It really is all about perspective.
Before even considering a face lift, it is important to look at yourself in the right way.
When you look in the mirror, hopefully you do not focus on the wrinkles in your face and neck.
Hopefully you look at yourself, and see you.
If you have ever seen pictures of an elderly individual when they were young, you sometimes can only tell it is the same person by looking at their eyes.
Perhaps that is why eyes are thought to be the window to the soul.
Your eyes do not really age, yes, trials and hardships change the way they look, dementia can make them seem like there is a blank stare, but really the eyes stay the same.
Your face is simply a façade covering the real you.
It does not matter if it is wrinkled as long as you are still inside.
Before looking at having a face lift, you need to know that you will still be you after the procedure.
You must not have expectations that are too high, because over time, that face lift will droop, and you will need to have it done again.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to look your best as long as possible.
There is no reason to have wrinkles if you have a way and means to stop them, but just remember that your perspective must not be that you need to change.
You are still you no matter how your face appears.
This is why plastic surgeons like to make sure that people are emotionally stable before plastic surgery.
Sometimes people have their expectations set far too high.
If you are in the midst of your mid-life crisis, you might think that you are young again and can conquer the world.
In some ways this is a positive thing.
It is good to keep active and young.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to look it too, just do not let it overtake you.
You are still you no matter how many plastic surgeries you have done.
After you have looked in the mirror for a few minutes and have seen who you are, you might realize that you are still there.
Your eyes are the same.
You might decide that you are actually aging gracefully, but you might decide that even so, you want to look your best, and a face lift is the way to do it.
That is not an emotionally driven decision.
That is a logical one, and there is nothing wrong with it.
Once you make the choice, find a plastic surgeon that has the same perspective.
Find one who reminds you that no matter how many plastic surgeries you have, you are still you.
